Stalking is a pattern of repeated, unwanted behaviour that causes someone to feel distressed, anxious or scared. It is helpful to consider the acronym ‘FOUR’ when thinking about stalking behaviour - is it Fixated, Obsessive, Unwanted, Repeated? Stalking can consist of any type of behaviour, such as regularly sending gifts, constant, unwanted or malicious communication, damaging property and physical or sexual assault.
Stalking is a serious crime. If you are receiving any form of contact that is causing you to feel distressed or scared or is restricting your freedom, even if the person has never threatened you, this can still be stalking and is not acceptable. The absence of violence or threats in stalking doesn’t make it less serious.
Stalking can happen to anyone by anyone, and you are never to blame.
Are you in immediate danger? If you are in immediate danger or seriously injured call 999.
If an incident has just happened, try to find somewhere you feel safe. If you are at the University, you can call the Campus Safety Officers on 07720 166090 or go to your nearest University building and ask someone to phone for you.
The Suzy Lamplugh Trust provide practical personal safety advice.
Paladin support high-risk victims of stalking with their specialist independent stalking advocacy caseworkers and ensure local protection is available for victims.
The specialist advocacy workers at Stop Domestic Abuse are there to help you, with advice and support. They can suggest how your friends and family can help if are worried you are in immediate danger.
Report stalking or harassment to Hampshire & IOW Constabulary.
Victim Support is the independent charity for people affected by crime and traumatic events in England and Wales. Their support is free and confidential.
The University offers wellbeing support through the Mental Health and Wellbeing Team. Details of the services available and to book an appointment, please visit their portal page.
Visit the Student Hub to discuss submitting extenuating circumstances if your studies have or are being affected.